A very simple way to highlight the selected menu Tab.

.menu {
  FONT-SIZE: 12px; 
  FONT-FAMILY: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; 
  }
.menu a {
  text-decoration:none; 
  }
.menu a:hover {
  color:#fff;
  background:#08c;
  }
.hilt1 {
  color:#fff; 
  background:#08c;
  }
<p class="menu">
<a href="menu_sel1.htm" class="hilt1" >menu 1</a>&nbsp;&nbsp; |&nbsp;&nbsp; 
<a href="menu_sel2.htm" class="hilt2">menu 2</a>&nbsp;&nbsp; |&nbsp;&nbsp; 
<a href="menu_sel3.htm" class="hilt3"> menu 3 </a>
</p>